Select Singles

ExclusiveStandards.com is a MEMBERS ONLY dating society for single professionals with standards. Unlike other sites where anyone can join, Exclusive Standards members have gone through an extensive screening process to ensure a higher caliber of members and standards. We are very selective with our membership in an effort to provide quality options for your online dating experience.



Professional Privacy

We understand that most professionals value their dating privacy and we do too! Unlike other sites where anyone can visit the site and view its users, at ExclusiveStandards.com only approved Premium Members can view other member profiles. This is to protect our member’s dating experience.


Video Profiles

Each approved member’s video submitted in the application will automatically be uploaded and available for viewing in their profile. A video submission is part of the application process and can have an impact on membership approval.  Videos are a great way to get more views and contacts. We believe that a video will help to break down the communication barriers for our members. Videos should not exceed 60 seconds.



Exclusive Standards uses the information you provide to match our members not only with singles who are similar to you, but also singles who complement you. Our goal is to create the most successful and long lasting relationships.


Video Chat

How much easier would it be to have your “first date” using video chat instead of meeting in public, spending time and money while finding out there is no chemistry between you. With a quick video chat you can gauge someone’s personality and find out whether or not you should be on a real date. Unlike old-style dating sites Exclusive Standards is happy to provide you real-time video chat. Communicate live and have a true face to face safe dating experience!


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Verified Professionals

We offer members the opportunity to authorize a personal background check. We have partnered with an NJB Certified third-party company to perform a check against the national criminal and sex offender registry. We will only perform this screening upon a member’s authorization. Once an approved background check is received, the member will receive a verified professional stamp of approval on their profile for all members to see. 


Exclusive Singles Events

Our posh events cater to singles who seeks to meet new people in an upscale setting. Our events bring together attractive, intelligent, successful, like-minded singles in one unforgettable night.     Exclusive Singles Events – where the professional single with standards comes to network, socialize and enjoy area nightlife!  These sexy and sophisticated events are monthly. To receive your secret invite and to be added to our Exclusive guest list, please RSVP at ExclusiveList.net. These events are open to non-members. Our Premium Members receive access to all of our Exclusive Singles Events at no charge. 




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